![This was not guilt: guilt is what you feel when you have done something wrong. What I felt was shame: I was what was wrong.](https://quotes.happiom.com/wp-content/uploads/6/atul-gawande-quotes-184277-this-was-not-guilt-guilt-is.png)
This was not guilt: guilt is what you feel when you have done something wrong. What I felt was shame: I was what was wrong.
– Atul Gawande
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