Famous Julian Barnes Quotes

What you end up remembering isn’t always the same as what you have witnessed.– Julian Barnes

The final tormenting, unanswerable question: what is ‘success’ in mourning?– Julian Barnes

There is a grotesquerie to grief as well. You lose the sense of your existence being rational, or justifiable. You feel absurd.– Julian Barnes

Throw off your grief,’ doubters imply, ‘and we can all go back to pretending death doesn’t exist, or at least is comfortably far away.– Julian Barnes

Of course, there were other sorts of literature — theoretical, self-referencial, lachrymosely autobiographical — but they were just dry wanks.– Julian Barnes

What was the point of having a situation worthy of fiction if the protagonist didn’t behave as he would have done in a book?– Julian Barnes

you find yourself repeating, -˜They grow up so quickly, don’t they?’ when all you really mean is: time goes faster for me nowadays.– Julian Barnes

Love is just a system for getting someone to call you Darling after sex.– Julian Barnes

You can deal with the brain, as I say; it looks sensible, whereas the heart, the human heart, I’m afraid, looks a ????ing mess.– Julian Barnes

Music escapes from words: that is its purpose, and its majesty.– Julian Barnes
