If you do not acquire good training in detachment, you may attach to all the wrong things.
– Richard Rohr
Related Quotes:
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- Experience is hard to acquire. Only the wise acquire it – Bangambiki Habyarimana
- Every day is a training day and every event is a training event. – James Pritchert
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- Traumatic experiences in early childhood may interfere with the child’s ability to securely attach. – Asa Don Brown
- you may be wrong to be right in the wrong direction, but, what is the wrong direction? – Ernest Agyemang Yeboah
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