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When you can identify the insecurities inside the person that is hurting you then you can begin to heal. It isn't about you. It is about their past.

When you can identify the insecurities inside the person that is hurting you then you can begin to heal. It isn’t about you. It is about their past.
– Shannon L Alder

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